How long do I have before anything can be filed?
Under federal servicing rules a servicer generally may not make the first notice or filing until a borrower is more than 120 days delinquent (Regulation X, 12 C.F.R. § 1024.41(f)(1)). That is a floor, not a promise, and exceptions apply — but it means a servicer generally may not start a foreclosure until you are more than 120 days behind (12 C.F.R. § 1024.41(f)); use that time.
Is a housing counselor the same as a lawyer?
No, and the difference matters. A HUD-approved counselor is free and works on the loan — loss mitigation, modification, budgets. A lawyer works on the case: answering a complaint, raising defenses, appearing at a hearing. Many homeowners need both, in that order.
I cannot pay a lawyer. What then?
Start with legal aid rather than assuming you have no options. The Legal Services Corporation maintains a finder for the legal aid organization covering your county, and foreclosure is squarely within what they handle. We do not badge firms as pro bono on this site, because the volume of inquiries that generates helps nobody.
Someone offered to stop my foreclosure for a fee. Is that legitimate?
Treat it as a scam until proven otherwise. The FTC’s Mortgage Assistance Relief Services rule generally bars charging an advance fee for this work. Nobody legitimate needs money before they have done anything, and nobody legitimate asks you to sign the deed over or to stop talking to your servicer.
Does it matter which town my property is in?
Yes. In Connecticut the town where the property sits decides which Superior Court judicial district hears the case (C.G.S. § 51-345). Our town pages name the courthouse, and the venue guide covers towns with two permitted courthouses.